Finally i have experienced what is the meaning of ”Worshipping God in Tears” (,”)(”,)

Few days ago i went church for a Christian concert, during the concert..when worshipping at the middle…

sing some song, the song title is ”I believe in God miracle”, ” How great is our God” (but in mandarin version), my lock of my inner heart was broken and my tears start to fall down continually, till i unable to sing anymore…and just knee down…around 1 hour like that..i already long time din experience such already..God really touch my heart..
it is really amazing…actually i am a person that quite shy when face people…actually yesterday the pastor yesterday after praise and worship, he have a calling for us…”Our lives just once at this earth, if u are not going to committed (give out ur life) to Jesus, then who (or wat thing) u want to committed to?

Heavenly Father was calling me, God seem whisper beside my ears, ”Oh, my dear son,  come back to Me, u have get lost at outside cos of stress & tensions..come back to Me & I shall hug u with My warmest embrace, cos I will never forsake u, I love you with my everlasting love, since I have created you.”

”although u have ever sinned….but come back to Me, my dear son ….”  that time when worshipping & heard a calling like this….i just feel that…Heavenly Father is calling me…

actually at 1st, i very shy to come out to the stage one…but when i heard the calling from God,  that time my tears fall down even more, and knee down before the stage…i long time din experience such deepest revival in my heart since long time ago…i truly sure that my tears that came out is NOT because of sad, but is because of a kind of release & joy, God have break the chains & set me free And i very confirm that this kind of release & joy cannot be feeled by other entertainments or funs, He is the one who can satisfy my ultimate’s emptiness of my soul - Jesus Christ.

Finally i have experience what is the meaning of ”Worshipping God in Tears”….thanks God…Hallelujah

Oh, God , i truly experience ur miracle in my life, I strongly believe that is You hold my hand & walk together with me when the storm were coming ,”Even though I walk through the valley of shadow of death, I will fear no evil, because You are with me, Your rod & your staff, they will comfort me” (Psalms 23:4).

Even though i ever hurted You, I really feel that i NOT deserved for Your love, but You still love me, thanks God, i remember that when Jesus Christ nailed on the cross, He said, ”Heavenly Father, please forgive them, because they do not know what they are doing”. (Luke 23:34) , my heart crying for my sins, tears shed cos I feel sorry to You, Lord. A song always comfort & encourage me, that is ”God will make a way”,

God will make a way, Where there seems to be no way, He works in ways we cannot see, He will make a way for me, He will be my guide, Hold me closely to His side, With love and strength for each new day, He will make a way He will make a way

Another song is ”祢神迹如此真实” (by 约书亚敬拜团)

主祢能力何其的伟大

神迹确实靠近，在你这运行
而我要凭信心的生命

My heart is so grateful to You, Lord, i shall praise You forever, cos You have give me chances in my daily life, Hallelujah ^_^

How God loves us ??!!

My pastor ever explain how ”God love us” by using a example, If someone take out a RM 100 cash paper, then throw it on the ground, & keep trample (step on) the RM 100 cash & even treat the RM 100 cash as rubbish paper by folding the  repeatedly till it become wrinkle & finally throw it into the rubbish bin. Then the pastor asked that, do u still want that RM 100 cash (which is treated as rubbish paper as what i have described just now) ? I am sure that most of u will still say ”Yes, I still want to get back the RM 100 cash although it was treated as rubbish paper just now, because it is still worthy & has its value although it is ever treated as rubbish paper before”

Actually the story above is the metaphor to describe how God love us, although we were once sinned against Him, make Him sad,  we are actually ”trample step on” ourselves (just like a RM100 cash paper are treated as a rubbish paper before), sometimes we really feel that we are NOT deserved for God’s love anymore, we feel that we are just like a rubbish !! ; However, God will still wishing u to come back to His side, because He still love u, no matter how u sinned against Him & how u have hurted God’s heart before (just like a person will still pick up the RM 100 cash paper which have been treated as rubbish paper before), because everyone of u are precious in God eyes & irreplacable. God still love u from the beginning till the end with His everlasting love. Hear that God is calling us now, ”come back to me, my dear son,  even though u ever deny or fail me before & hurted my Heart before, but I still love u, my son, return to me & I shall hug u with my warmest embrace” . Just same as the Bible says, ”But we had to celebrate and be glad, because your this brother was dead and is alive again; he was lost & is now found” (Luke 15: 32).

You may sometimes feel yourself is a loser, feeling so depressed & not dare to try again after a failure or have sinned. Let me tell u, just wake up from where u fall down & u will discover how blue the sky is. Human are strange, normally only have ever lossed something in their lives, then only they start to cherish (appreciate) that thing. Maybe u will say, ”Oh, it is too late, i NEVER have to chance to start all over again , i am finish, all gone !!” But remember, God will always give u chances to try again, it is NEVER too late to start all over again as long as u confess your wrongness, cos God is always still there to guide u.”

Thus, we should say the following verses to strengthen ourselves:

Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.(2 Corinthians 5:17)

”forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians3:13-14)

God grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.(2 Corinthians 12: 9)

I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.(Philippians 4: 13)

So we should NOT give up myself, because our Heavenly Father NEVER give up us, cos ”Be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”(Hebrews 13: 5). Whenever u have sinned & feel that u are NOT deserved to come back to God again, u can do what i said just now, take out a RM 100 cash paper, trample step on the RM 100 till it is wrinkle, I am sure that u will still willingly to pick up the RM100 cash which u have treated as rubbish just now. Similarly, that is how God love us even though we are NOT deserved for His love, Worthy is the Lamb, Hallelujah

Do u forget Why Jesus Christ died for u ??!!

Recently i viewed a music video clip with editted together with video of ”The Passion of The Christ”, that are ”At The Cross” & ”Why” by Nichole Nordeman (from Youtube), they are prefectly good, touch me till bottom of my heart. My tears will come whenever i remember Jesus died for me so that I can be saved from sins.. i come across a sentence in my mind, that is ”Don’t  I  forget Jesus ever shed His  blood for me?!?! Don’t  I  forget my tears ever shed for Jesus?!?! Thanks God, worthy is the Lamb , Hallelujah

Besides, we should confess our sin to God, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.(1 John 1:9). After that please prove ur confession by action, dun just always ask for forgiveness if u keep repeating the same wrongness again and again, (it is just like a friend keep punching u, after punching, he say sorry to u, and then he still punch u again, how would u feel? ) . Similarly most of us keep repeat our same wrongness (seem without any regret or sad toward our own sins), then we thought that God is faithful & will ALWAYS forgive us, BUT please do NOT treat God as a blind, God see everything that we do every moments, He will finally judge or award us according to what we have done, because He is the Righteous God, He actually cannot tolerate any single sins.

Just like someone was enjoy wallowing in a mud, then he bath & wash away the mud from his body, BUT then go back to the mud & continue wallowing in the mud again, well, u may think that that person is crazy & foolish. But u please do NOT laugh & criticize him 1st, we actually always do the similar thing, as foolish as that person, we seem enjoy wallowing in the mud of Sins every moments, but Jesus Christ died on the cross, so we can be saved from our sins, then later are u still wish to go back wallowing at the mud of Sins again & again ?!?!? Can’t u imagine that how painful & torturous Jesus was when He was crucified & nailed on the Cross?? Jesus Christ is without any sins & shed His blood for us (NOT for himself). Actually we are the one have sins & we should be the actual person to be nailed on the cross, but Jesus Christ has replace us to be nailed & suffered so that our sins will be cleansed & forgiven by God.

Thus so dun keep wallowing in the mud of Sins again & keep giving excuse that that particular sins or bad habits are hard to corrected. As Bible says:

There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.(1 Corinthians 10: 13)

As long as we still alive, there is hope for us to correct & solve the problem.

So if u keep repeating sins in your life without any regret, u are actually deny the salvation from Jesus Christ who died for u on the cross, then u were the one who actually crucified Jesus Christ & nailed Him on the Cross !!! How sinful u are !!!!

FOLLOWING ARE SOME TOUCHING VIDEO CLIPS (THAT U MUST NOT MISS), MAKE SURE THAT U HAVE PREPARE ENOUGH TISSUE PAPERS BEFORE U CLICK ON THEM TO SEE (,”)(”,) :

At the Cross

Worthy is the Lamb

Why (by Nichole Nordeman)

Following are the lyrics:

At the cross

Oh Lord You’ve searched me
You know my way
Even when I fail You
I know You love me

Your holy presence
Surrounding me
In every season
I know You love me
I know You love me

At the cross I bow my knee
Where Your blood was shed for me
There’s no greater love than this
You have overcome the grave
Glory fills the highest place
What can separate me now

You go before me
You shield my way
Your hand upholds me
I know You love me

At the cross I bow my knee
Where Your blood was shed for me
There’s no greater love than this
You have overcome the grave
Your glory fills the highest place
What can separate me now?(x2)

You tore the veil
You made a way
When You said that it is done(x2)

And when the earth fades
Falls from my eyes
And You stand before me
I know You love me
Oh.. I know You love me

At the cross I bow my knee
Where your blood was shed for me
There’s no greater love than this
You have overcome the grave
Glory fills the highest place
What can separate me now?(x2)

You tore the veil
You made a way
When You said that it is done(x4)

Worthy is the Lamb

Thank you for the cross Lord
Thank you for the price You paid
Bearing all my sin and shame
In love You came
And gave amazing grace

Thank You for this love Lord
Thank You for the nail pierced hands
Washed me in Your cleansing flow
Now all I know
Your forgiveness and embrace

Chorus:
Worthy is the Lamb
Seated on the throne
Crown You now with many crowns
You reign victorious

High and lifted up
Jesus Son of God
The Darling of Heaven crucified
Worthy is the Lamb

Why    (by Nichole Nordeman)

We rode into town the other day
Just me and my Daddy
He said I’d finally reached that age
And I could ride next to him on a horse
That of course was not quite as wide

We heard a crowd of people shouting
And so we stopped to find out why
And there was that man
That my dad said he loved
But today there was fear in his eyes

So I said “Daddy, why are they screaming?
Why are the faces of some of them beaming?
Why is He dressed in that bright purple robe?
I’ll bet that crown hurts Him more than He shows
Daddy, please can’t you do something?
He looks as though He’s gonna cry
you said he was stronger than all of those guys
daddy, please tell me why
Why does everyone want him to die?”

Later that day the sky grew cloudy
And Daddy said I should go inside
Somehow he knew things would get stormy
Boy was he right
But I could not keep from wondering
If there was something he had to hide

So after he left I had to find out
I was not afraid of getting lost
So I followed the crowds
To a hill where I knew men had been killed
And I heard a voice come from the cross

And it said, “Father, why are they screaming?
Why are the faces of some of them beaming?
Why are they casting their lots for My robe?
This crown of thorns hurts Me more than it shows
Father, please can’t You do something?
I know that You must hear My cry
I thought I could handle the cross of this size
Father, remind Me why
Why does everyone want Me to die?
When will I understand why?”

“My precious Son, I hear them screaming
I’m watching the face of the enemy beaming
But soon I will clothe You in robes of My own
Jesus, this hurts Me much more than You know
But this dark hour I must do nothing
Though I’ve heard Your unbearable cry
The power in Your blood destroys all of the lies
Soon You’ll see past their unmerciful eyes
Look there below, see the child
Trembling by her father’s side
Now I can tell You why
She is why You must die”

為何上帝會讓此等悲劇發生？？‏

“为什么”是我们很喜欢问的问题。我们不止问别人为什么，也很喜欢问上帝为什么。

愿这个真实对白给你带来答案。

美國著名牧師葛培理的女兒安妮，於911後被美國某電視台邀請出席節目。

但是若你棄掉這思想過程的話，便不要投訴現今的世界不像樣了！

SATAN’S MEETING: (Read even if you’re busy)

SATAN’S MEETING: (Read even if you’re busy)

Satan called a worldwide convention of demons.

In his opening address he said,

‘We can’t keep Christians from going to church.’

‘We can’t keep them from reading their Bibles and knowing the truth.’

‘We can’t even keep them from forming an intimate relationship with their saviour.’

‘Once they gain that connection with Jesus, our power over them is broken.’

‘So let them go to their churches; let them have their covered dish dinners, BUT steal their time, so they don’t have time to develop a relationship with Jesus Christ..’

‘This is what I want you to do,’ said the devil:

‘Distract them from gaining hold of their Saviour and maintaining that vital connection throughout their day!’

‘How shall we do this?’ his demons shouted.

‘Keep them busy in the non-essentials of life and invent innumerable schemes to occupy their minds,’ he answered.

‘Tempt them to spend, spend, spend, and borrow, borrow, borrow.’

‘Persuade the wives to go to work for long hours and the husbands to work 6-7 days each week, 10-12 hours a day, so they can afford their empty lifestyles.’

‘Keep them from spending time with their children.’

‘As their families fragment, soon, their homes will offer no escape from the pressures of work!’

‘Over-stimulate their minds so that they cannot hear that still, small voice.’

‘Entice them to play the radio or cassette player whenever they drive.’ To keep the TV, VCR, CDs and their PCs going constantly in their home and see to it that every store and restaurant in the world plays non-biblical music constantly.’

‘This will jam their minds and break that union with Christ.’

‘Fill the coffee tables with magazines and newspapers.’

‘Pound their minds with the news 24 hours a day.’

‘Invade their driving moments with billboards.’

‘Flood their mailboxes with junk mail, mail order catalogs, sweepstakes, and every kind of newsletter and promotional offering free products, services and false hopes..’

‘Keep skinny, beautiful models on the magazines and TV so their husbands will believe that outward beauty is what’s important, and they’ll become dissatisfied with their wives. ‘

‘Keep the wives too tired to love their husbands at night.’

‘Give them headaches too! ‘

‘If they don’t give their husbands the love they need, they will begin to look elsewhere.’

‘That will fragment their families quickly!’

‘Give them Santa Claus to distract them from teaching their children the real meaning of Christmas.’

‘Give them an Easter bunny so they won’t talk about his resurrection and power over sin and death.’

‘Even in their recreation, let them be excessive.’

‘Have them return from their recreation exhausted.’

‘Keep them too busy to go out in nature and reflect on God’s creation. Send them to amusement parks, sporting events, plays, concerts, and movies instead.’

‘Keep them busy, busy, busy!’

‘And when they meet for spiritual fellowship, involve them in gossip and small talk so that they leave with troubled consciences.’

‘Crowd their lives with so many good causes they have no time to seek power from Jesus.’

‘Soon they will be working in their own strength, sacrificing their health and family for the good of the cause.’

‘It will work!’

‘It will work!’

It was quite a plan!

The demons went eagerly to their assignments causing Christians everywhere to get busier and more rushed, going here and there.

Having little time for their God or their families.

Having no time to tell others about the power of Jesus to change lives.

I guess the question is, has the devil been successful in his schemes?

You be the judge!!!!!

Does ‘BUSY’ mean: B-eing U-nder S-atan’s Y-oke?

Please pass this on, if you aren’t too BUSY!

I don’t think I know 10 people who would admit they love Jesus.

Do You Love Him?

IF YOU LOVE JESUS, PASS THIS ON!!!!!!!

A LETTER TO YOU FROM SATAN (PAY ATTENTION TO THE P.S. at the end.)

DARK LETTER
PAY ATTENTION TO THE P.S. at the end.

Letter from the Devil
This can really make you think. It actually made me really mad
while I was reading it, but it made me realize some things.
Plus,
I had to send it because of the P.S.
This is deep… and I wasn’t going to forward or share it, but that last line… you’ll see.

A LETTER TO YOU FROM SATAN

I saw you yesterday as you began your daily chores.

You awoke without kneeling to pray. As a matter of fact, you didn’t even bless your meals, or pray before going to bed last night.

You are so unthankful, I like that about you.

I cannot tell you how glad I am that you have not changed your way of living, Fool, you are mine.

Remember, you and I have been going steady for years, and
I still don’t love you yet.

As a matter of fact, I hate you, because I hate God.

He kicked me out of heaven, and I’m going to use you as long as possible to pay him back.

You see, Fool, GOD LOVES YOU and HE has great plans in store for you

But you have yielded your life to me, and I’m going to make your life a living hell.

That way, we’ll be together twice. This will really hurt God.

Thanks to you, I’m really showing Him who’s boss in your life with all of the good times we’ve had.

We have been…

watching dirty movies,
cursing people out,
stealing, lying, being hypocritical, fornicating, overeating, telling dirty jokes, gossiping, being judgmental,
back stabbing people, disrespecting adults, and those in leadership positions, no respect for the Church, bad attitudes.

SURELY you don’t want to give all this up.

Come on, Fool, let’s burn together forever. I’ve got some hot
plans for us. This is just a letter of appreciation from me to you.

I’d like to say ‘THANKS’ for letting me use you for most of your foolish life.

You are so gullible, I laugh at you. When you are tempted to sin, you give in

HA HA HA, you make me sick.

Sin is beginning to take its toll on your life. You look 20 years older, and now, I need new blood.

So go ahead and teach some children how to sin.

All you have to do is smoke, get drunk or drink while under-aged, cheat, gamble, gossip, fornicate, and live being as selfish as possible.

Do all of this in the presence of children and they will do it too. Kids are like that.

Well, Fool, I have to let you go for now. I’ll be back in a couple of seconds to tempt you again. If you were smart, you would run somewhere, confess your sins, and live for God with what little bit of life that you have left.

It’s not my nature to warn anyone, but to be your
age and still sinning, it’s becoming a bit ridiculous. Don’t get me wrong, I still hate you.

IT’S JUST THAT YOU’D MAKE A BETTER FOOL FOR CHRIST.

P.S. If you love me, you won’t share this

Footprint (Jesus carry me when I need Him the most) - My favourite article ^_^

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him, and the other to the Lord.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times of his life.

This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it. “Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you’d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don’t understand why when I needed You most You would leave me.”

The Lord replied, “My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.”

相遇是一种机会（缘分），相爱是一种选择 Meet each others is by CHANCE, but Love each others is by CHOICE

相遇 
相聚是情，是一种欢悦。
相伴是爱，是一种幸福。
而相遇是一种缘分，是巧合中的缘分。
　　
　　人海茫茫，众生芸芸，人的一生，总会有许许多多的相遇。在学校里与同学伴读是一种相遇，在单位与同事共事是一种相遇，在生活中与朋友相处是一种相遇。甚或，在都市匆匆行程中比肩而过的人，虽然没有言语，且只是双眼瞬间的对视,但也是一种相遇。
　　有些相遇，犹如昙花一现，转眼即逝。有些相遇，却会在心灵深处留下永远难以抹平的记忆。
　
　　有些人，在生活中偶然相遇了，这种相遇可能成为过眼云烟，也可能仅仅成为你歌中的一个节拍。而有些人，在你短暂的人生中注定要和你相遇，从此,演绎出了多少悲欢离合与爱恨情仇。
　　相遇是没有任何理由，如果有，也只是有一个缘字罢了。缘不是刻意去追求就能得到的，而是一种偶然与必然的巧合。在同一时间，同一地点，同一种环境与心
境下的相遇，是一种美丽的相遇。一句友好的问候，一个甜甜的笑容，一次无意中的相助，都可成为生命中一道靓丽的风景线。如果相遇便是敌人，那不是相遇，而
是叫遭遇。

相遇就象是两个彼此心心相通的精灵，在陌生的旅途中翩然而至，不期而遇。然后相知相惜、相怜相爱。相遇的过程多数是美丽的，只是结局有所不同。有些相遇能产生爱情、亲情和友情。有些相遇却产生了虚伪、欺骗与敌人。
结果成为敌人的相遇，那是建立在相互索取、相互利用、相互欺骗的基础之上的，这样的相遇，最好没有。你可以把它当成是一次生命中的错觉不予理之，否则你将会在无意中揭开人生旅伴上最残忍的悲剧性序幕。
结果成为朋友的相遇，必须有共同的语言、共同的爱好、共同的理想、共同的追求，必须相互友善、真诚相待，才能在今后的人生旅途中相助相帮、共同搏击人间风雨。
结果成为情人的相遇，往往是没有太多语言的，只需一个含情默默的眼神，一个春心荡漾的细微动作，就已经足够感动天地，足够恩恩爱爱把家还了。

相遇是一种缘份。有时候，这种缘份是平淡的。之所以平淡，是因为无声无息，既没有故事，也没有情节，甚至没有一句问候、一个微笑。
　　相遇是一种缘份，有时候，这种缘份是精彩的。之所以精彩，是因为从相遇到相识、相知、相爱，需要不停地付出。包括无私的真城、温馨的友谊，直至心血的浇灌。

　　无论是在你孤单与寂寞的时候，还是在你幸福与快乐的期间，相遇无时无刻不在，而且总是在不知不觉中来
临。相遇，总给人带来许多说不清的感动。一次感动的相遇，让人有无数个相见恨晚的感慨。相遇，也总给人带来许多意外中的惊喜。一次惊喜的相遇，给人有一种
一见如故的感觉。
　　有些相遇，一开始便注定了相遇之人将要一生并肩同行。有些相遇，同样一开始就注定了相遇之人将要一生仇恨。因此，相遇是无法选择也无法预知的。如果一开始就知道相遇是一场错误，没有人会去选择这场相遇，如果一开始就知道相遇是一场幸福,没有人会后悔当初的相遇。

　　你每天与什么人相遇，你跟他（她）会在哪个空间和时间彼此相遇，这种相遇能产生多少情节与故事？你，在意吗？
　　无论是在对与错的空间，还是在今天与明天的时间，我想，都应该珍惜和把握好人生中的每一次相遇，尽管有些相遇是你不愿意的。但是，毕竟在你一生中的所有相遇，总会有一次是你认为最美丽、最温暖、最珍贵、最值得纪念和收藏的。 

把握身邊每一次相遇

人與人的相遇就像是一個隨機抽樣
在不同的時間空間之中…..彼此相遇….

也許 這是你們唯一一次的相遇……

★女人本是无泪的天使 ★男人本是拥有双翼的天使

 ★男人本是拥有双翼的天使             ★女人本是无泪的天使
  当他遇到心爱的女人                        当她遇到心爱的男人
  便折断翅膀变成凡人                        便掉下眼泪变成凡人
  所以女人不该辜负男人                     所以男人不该辜负女人
  因为他为你放弃了飞翔的自由           因为她为你放弃了整个的天堂

女人是一个天使，当她爱上一个人时，她就会折断翅膀来到人间，所以男人不要伤害身边的女人，因为她已经没有翅膀再飞回天堂”
    当我看到这段话的时候，心中有无限的感触，写这段话的人，如果是一个女人的话，我要说，那是自怜，如果是一个男人的话，我要说，这个男人一定是个真真正正的男人，是女人心目中理想的男人，他会在女人心中占据绝对重要的位置，绝对值得一个天使为他折断翅膀来到人间。
    可是，悲哀的是有几个男人会把身边的女人看作是天使，在他们眼中，折断了翅膀的天使已经不能称之为天使了。
    每个女人都曾是天使,在属于她们的天堂快乐的生活着,没有忧愁没有伤心更没有眼泪,直到无可救要的爱上一个人.天使毅然的放弃了天堂坠入凡间变成凡人.她相信只要能和心爱的男人在一起,到哪里都是的天堂.
    要想成为一个男人心中，永远的天使，那就是，不要让他得到你，你对他来说，永远可望而不可及，就让他隔着天堂与人间的距离，远远的看着你，就让他永远得不到你，只留一份牵挂在他的心中，这样，你才是他心中永远的天使。
   
我想，女人的悲哀，可能就是永远把自己当作了天使，希望身边的男人永远把自己看作是天使。事实上，没有男人会这样做的。即使有，也是少之又少，你敢保证自
己会遇到这样的男人吗？既使遇到了，你能保证这样的男人就会属于你吗？女人的悲哀还在于，总是把身边的男人想象的太好，事实上，他没你想象中的那么好，当
然也不会太坏。
    因为没有那样的男人，因为没有遇到那样的男人，所以，天使在折断了翅膀以后，还会心碎。
    女人希望男人对她
好一点儿，再好一点儿，男人希望女人爱她多一点儿，再多一点儿。女人说，因为男人对她好，所以，她才会爱上这个男人，男人说，是因为女人的爱，他才会对她
好。男人与女人，因为性别的不同，在一些问题上永远无法达成共识。正因为如此，我们才苦苦寻找爱的真谛，什么是爱，为了什么而爱，怎么样去爱。
    女人，为爱而生，是一种幸福，为爱而死，是一种壮烈，为爱而不死不活，那就是一种悲哀了。如果是一个男人让这个女人不死不活，那更是这个男人的失败，作为男人的失败！
    一个男人，因为一个女人而改变，是作女人的成功，一个男人，肯为了一个女人而改变，是女人的幸福，
    问问自己，你幸福吗？